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O Lord, support us all the day long through this trouble-filled life, until the shadows lengthen, and the evening comes, and the busy world is hushed, and the fever of life is over, and our work is done. Then in your mercy grant us a safe lodging, and a holy rest, and peace at the last. Amen.

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Joseph, Husband of the Virgin Mary

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The 5th Sunday in Lent (Passion Sunday)

Almighty God, you alone can bring into order the unruly wills and affections of sinners: Grant your people grace to love what you command and desire what you promise; that, among the swift and varied changes of this world, our hearts may surely there be fixed where true joys are to be found; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever.  Amen.

Proper Preface

Lent

You bid your faithful people cleanse their hearts, and prepare with joy for the Paschal feast; that, fervent in prayer and in works of mercy, and renewed by your Word and Sacraments, they may come to the fullness of grace which you have prepared for those who love you.

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Most liturgical texts are from the Book of Common Prayer (2019) of the Anglican Church in North America.

The New Coverdale Psalter, © 2019 by the Anglican Church in North America. Used by permission.

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The Hours

Morning Prayer

30 Day Psalter

Psalms 95, 96, 97

60 Day Psalter

Psalms 45

Lessons

  • Exodus 26
  • Matthew 24:1–28
  • Short Form
  • Readings
Midday Prayer

Benedictine Weekly

Short Form

Psalm 119:1-32

Readings
Evening Prayer

30 Day Psalter

Psalms 98, 99, 100, 101

60 Day Psalter

Psalms 46

Lessons

  • Ephesians 1:15–1:23
  • Matthew 1:18–1:25
  • Short Form
  • Readings
Compline

Psalter

Short Form

Psalms 4, 31, 91, 134

Readings

Last Sunday

The 5th in Lent (Passion Sunday)

  • Ezekiel 37:1–14
  • Psalm 130
  • Romans 6:15–23
  • John 11:(1–17)18–44

Upcoming Sunday

Palm Sunday

  • Isaiah 52:13–53:12
  • Psalm 22:1–22v or Psalm 22:1–11v or Psalm 31:10–18v
  • Philippians 2:5–11
  • Matthew (26:36–75) 27:1–54 (55–66)

Joseph, Husband of the Virgin Mary and Guardian of Jesus

Husband of the Blessed Virgin Mary

Red Letter Day

The husband of Mary and the legal father of Jesus, a working man of Nazareth who is never once quoted in Scripture. What the Gospels give him instead is a pattern: he is told something in a dream, he gets up, and he does it. He named the child, which was the father's act and made the fatherhood legal, and then he disappears from the record so completely that the Church has had to infer his death from silence.

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Joseph is introduced in the Gospels as 'the husband of Mary' (Matthew 1:16) and as 'the carpenter' (Mark 6:3, though some manuscripts attribute this description to Jesus). Matthew 1:18–25 presents Joseph's dilemma and its resolution: Mary is found to be with child before they have lived together; Joseph, 'being a righteous man and unwilling to expose her to public disgrace,' resolves to dismiss her quietly. But an angel appears to him in a dream and says, 'Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, for the child conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit.' Joseph awakes and does as the angel commands — he takes Mary as his wife and names the child Jesus.

Matthew's infancy narrative (1:18–2:23) presents Joseph as the protector of the holy family. He travels with Mary to Bethlehem for the census, witnesses the birth, receives the Magi, and is warned in a dream of Herod's intention to kill the child. He flees with Mary and Jesus to Egypt and remains there until another dream directs him to return to the land of Israel. He settles in Nazareth in Galilee, fulfilling the prophecy 'He shall be called a Nazorean.'

Luke's infancy narrative (1:26–2:52) assigns Joseph a more secondary role. Joseph and Mary bring Jesus to the Temple at Jerusalem for his circumcision and presentation. After the Transfiguration is past, Luke notes that Jesus's parents 'did not understand the saying that he spoke to them' (2:50), indicating the mystery surrounding Jesus's divine identity.

After Luke 2:43, Joseph disappears from the Gospel narratives. Jesus's public ministry begins with no mention of Joseph, and the Gospels make clear that Jesus's family — including Joseph — did not initially understand or support his ministry (Mark 3:21, John 7:5). Joseph is not mentioned at the Cross or after the Resurrection. The traditional explanation is that Joseph died before Jesus's public ministry began, sometime between Jesus's childhood and the beginning of his ministry at approximately age thirty.

Traditions & stories

Traditionally, Joseph is described as an elderly man — older than Mary — at the time of their betrothal. The Protoevangelium of James (2nd century) presents Joseph as a widower with children from a previous marriage, introduced as a guardian rather than a true husband. This tradition developed to preserve the conviction that Mary bore only one child, Jesus, and that the 'brothers and sisters' of Jesus mentioned in the Gospels were Joseph's children from a previous marriage or, in the Eastern tradition, cousins.

Joseph's profession as a carpenter and his role as Jesus's earthly father became the basis for medieval devotion to Joseph as the model of humble labor, family fidelity, and the sanctity of ordinary work. He is invoked as the patron of workers and of the dying (because tradition holds that Jesus was present at Joseph's deathbed, granting him a 'happy death'). Late medieval and post-Reformation Catholic piety expanded Joseph's veneration significantly, though this expansion has no patristic foundation.

Joseph's silence in the Gospels — he speaks no words in any Gospel account — became a theme in spiritual theology, interpreted as the silence of faith and obedience.

Collect
O God, who from the family of your servant David raised up Joseph to be the guardian of your incarnate Son and the husband of his virgin mother: Give us grace to imitate his uprightness of life and his obedience to your commands; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.